What we've been up to...

So other than clinic what have we been up to?  Well Todd of course has been going to his rotations every day and gets home a little later than we like...but since we usually stay up til midnight with our little bug I guess it's not so late.  Anywhere between 7 and 9:30 usually.  Gracie and I spend the day trying to find things to do...she's so active and with our limits not only of trying to keep her from sickness and infection...but her having to deal with a lousy pregnant Mom it can be a bit of a challenge.  We usually spend several hours a day outside swinging, riding her bike, riding in her little car, playing in our car (that's a huge hit)-she even likes to dance to the music in the car sometimes, running around and playing with rocks and usually trying to touch anything that she shouldn't or running into the street!  We did have some fun swimming this Saturday and got a bunch of cute pictures.  Todd and I even went on one last date before things get to hectic for thinking about that.  Thank you Amy for watching Gracie!  You are so wonderful! When not outside we watch more movies than we'd like to admit...but hey you've got to survive somehow right?  She is so into movies right now and we are grateful that she is old enough  that they hold her attention when we are so worn out at times.  Especially at night now that she's usually up til midnight...but she has been sleeping til about 8:30 or 9 so we'll take what we can get!!

She was already and even packed her bag to go for a drive...where did we drive to?  I can't even remember it was just to keep us sane and get out of the house haha!

All tuckered out...gotta love that chemo.  Poor little sweetie I believe this was at 6:30 pm as I mentioned before we have no schedule at this house anymore and why change it with a newborn coming in 11 days or less?

Todd's mancakes we tried out at Stepping Stone Cafe, they were huge!  Even for a man with his appetite.

Nothing better than coming home from a date to some fun play time with our Gracie.  She loved it even thought the water was FREEZING and her Dad is ruthless with splashing her.

There's the big belly...at my last appt and ultrasound which was last Thursday they thought the baby was about 8 to 8 1/2 lbs.  Yikes...I hope I don't last another 11  days who wants a 9 1/2-10 lb baby?  Otherwise he looked healthy thought so we're grateful.  His predicted due date from size was actually TODAY haha of course on my birthday but it looks like we'll make it through the day and he'll never have to suffer sharing his mother's birthday.  But any time after midnight I'd be thrilled if he decided to make an entrance.  I actually ended up going in for false labor last Tuesday with contractions every 2 minutes ...but of course no luck we are still here enjoying crampy contractions and the fabulous feeling of the end of pregnancy.  Anytime now my boy...anytime!

Painting the sidewalk with water...a favorite chidlhood memory of mind!  Plus mess free!

And lets just hope she loves her little brother as much as baby paraphanelia because it pretty much drives her crazy to see it and not get inside or drag it all over the place!

Sweet girl in her summer dress after a little chocolate on Sunday.  Yes she has enjoyed chocolate lately...but probably not for a few days now since she just had another dose of chemo. 

She's a great little signer!  Sure helps us out at times!

A little side shot of her fabulous hair.  I'm enjoying it this month before it all falls out.  I think she might miss it to because she loves to "whoosh" her hair back and forth and say "whoosh".

  She loves picking flowers and leaves. 

Is there a a more innocent looking face?  This little girl is truly our joy despite all the heartaches and difficulties.  When she is happy she makes us SOO happy.  Lately she's been giving us hugs and likes to hug us one after another or sometimes both at the same time.  She does a fair amount of the ordering around anymore and when it comes to hugs we more than willingly accept her orders!

another treatment down...

Well my birthday wish came true today!  Gracie passed counts...oh and also I didn't go into labor while at clinic:) I guess that's two birthday wishes so it looks like my birthday has been  a success!! 
Today went pretty well with clinic...my very concerned husband decided either he needed to come with me or I should find someone else to go with me in case I went into labor or something crazy with all the false labor I've been having this past week.  Well despite my regular nightly crampiness and my morning wake up call of crampy contractions around 5 or 6 am I did not go into labor...although it was nice to have the help and the company.  I had planned on going alone, but compromised because otherwise he would have come to clinic which would leave me home alone with Gracie til about 10 tonight so he could make up his hours.  So thank you Jodi for saving me again...I think it's only 1 million favors I owe you now!! 

Clinic Stats

WBC: 3.8

Hemoglobin: 11.5

ANC: 1.1

Platelets: 544,000

Weight: 31 lbs 1 oz

Height 2'9.5"

And all her chemistries looked good which means her liver and kidney are doing fine! YAY!

Well getting her port accessed was better this time but certainly not fun she still hates it so bad...but this time I requested another nurse to help hold her down and had them get several dressings ready in advance to speed up the process and we only ended up needing two large dressings instead of about 6.  The childlife specialist came in and brough her a doll to draw on and pretended to "access" the dolls port then let Gracie play with the syringe and pretend to give it medicine, etc.  Yes this is about the only circumstance a pregnant mother would let her 21 month old toddler draw on a doll with permanent markers:) Luckily it ended with only a few marks on her hands on none on our clothing or anything else besides the doll!  Here's a picture of the end result!

Although they took the needle of the access so we could take it home and she can safely play with it. 

We spend a little time trying to chase her around with her chemo but after realizing we weren't as quick as her and a few close calls we headed back to our area and tried to distract her with a movie.  Only after playing for an hour or so while waiting for her blood results.  Here's the sweet angel laying down for a few minutes to enjoy some cheese on her bed.

You'd never know she was accessed and just had her blood draw right underneath that little shirt and blanket.  When I look at this girl all I can think is she is my hero!  She's totally amazing!

Of course we finished up and got in the car for a good zonk out as is now tradition after clinic and she is sleeping soundly in my bed right now!  Yes I think she deserves to sleep in my bed after enduring all she does...poor thing couldn't stand to be put in her crib but I enjoyed a nice snuggle with her and I'm sure I'll rejoin her in another minute!  Hope we pass counts next time as they have dropped each time with the increased dose they give at each visit.  But luckily so far we've been blessed with passing each time. 



So it goes...

Yesterday was another hair rousing day at clinic!  Beads of sweat covered Gracie's forehead  and her hair was totally soaked as I did my best to hold her down against my nice round belly!  Yes I would say that was by far the worst experience accesing her port of the 4 times we've had to do it so far (and she hates it every time).  This time she kept kicking the nurse and was totally freaking out and right when the nurse went for the 2nd dressing she jerked big time and the dressing got stuck to the first one in the wrong place and almost ripped out the needle (which has to be really exact for the methotrexate she was getting).  The next 5-10 minutes (although it seemed MUCH longer) were spent holding her while she got more and more upset as the nurse tried to put dressing after dressing on to try to get it to hold in place so we didn't have to completely start over.  It was anything but fun for any of us and I'm sure Gracie would second that if she could!  We then resorted to a good movie to try to calm her down and distract her while i tried to hold her as still as possible so the access would stay exactly where it was and she could stop sweating so the nurse could slap on the last dressing.  By the end she probably had 6-7 dressings on covering her entire chest.  The next worst part is what goes on must come off so they had to rip all those dressings off before we left.  Her poor little chest was all red...poor thing.  I keep wishing I could explain to her what's happening so it wouldn't be so bad if we could get her to relax it would only take a quick cleaning of the area one little poke (and she's numb from the cream I put on before we leave) and one dressing.   But, I suppose that's our lot with a 20 month old...poor thing.  I'm hoping and praying(and maybe you all could pray) that it will get better next time and she will adjust to it like she has her blood pressure and other vitals.  She's amazing! Now she just lets them do it and doesn't cry anymore. 
Sorry no pictures this time but she passed counts which we are so so grateful for.  She has to pass her counts in order to get her treatment for the day!  Her counts looked great including her chemistry's they have to send down to the lab!  Please stay where you are little numbers!

Clinic stats

Weight: 31 lbs 4 oz

WBC: 4.9

Hemoglobin: 11.5

ANC: 1600

Platelets: 617,000 (the dr said the vincristine she's getting can cause platelets to keep producing so that's why hers just keep going up and up.  I calculated it and they are 45x higher than they were when she had her first transfusion.  WOW that's a major increase)

They upped her dose of methotrexate and she also got vincristine.  Luckily after forgetting last time she had vincristine to give her miralax and her waking up in pain from constipation I came home and immediately got her a bottle of milk and mixed in her miralax.  Hopefully it will prevent a repeat of the last experience. 

I have decided that the only sedative or sleep aid that seems to work for her is Methotrexate...it does wear her out for a couple days after.  Yesterday she took a 3 hour nap after clinic and then although she stayed up til about midnight I took a turn sleeping with her on the blow up so Todd could have one night to himself and she didn't do her regular middle of the night wake up for hours charade and we stayed in bed until 9:45.  It was a miracle.  And she took another good nap today...but she is still awake not at 10:15 pm and no signs of sleeping so our luck may be out.  We'll see how tonight goes!

What's new and unexplainable?

Well the good news first Gracie is growing and changing just like any other toddler!  She walks and runs!  It's so fun to watch her run we went on a walk the other day...she walked or ran most the way and as we headed down the street Todd decided he wanted to change into some shorts b/c it was too hot outside so he ran home and as soon as he started she turned out and started yelling  "daaaaa, daaaa" as she ran back towards the house.  She stopped for a minute to watch the kids play basketball in the street then looked back at the house kept running and yelling "daaaaa" it was so cute!  The poor guy can't get a break.  He goes to work (at a place he doesn't love) then comes home later in the evening to find a little girl that can't be separated from him...yes and he even has to sleep with her most of the night except of course for the long hours in which they are awake together during the night (to be explained later on). 

This week she has learned to feed herself with a spoon and fork.  She's had peach cups, cottage cheese, yogurt, pudding (the pictures above are all of her enjoying feeding herself pudding for the first time), and finally ate some oatmeal this morning which used to be her breakfast of choice until a month or two ago when she decided not to touch it.  She's starting to eat more normally and trying and liking the foods she wouldn't touch since she got sick...we're grateful even though we're sure it's only temporary since she'll be back on steroids and lots of new chemos coming her way. 
If I thought toddlers had a lot of energy before I have learned a new perspective on things!  I mean this girl can go...and go...and go!  Seriously I mean she makes me wonder why I need so much sleep!  She was sleeping about 7 hours a night for 4 nights straight with typically only 1 1/2 -2 hours of nap often broken up throught the day.  And when I say 7 hours a night I don't mean from 11-6...I mean broken scattered naps at night.  Here's an email I wrote to our Dr about the quandary we were in..which reminds me have I mentioned that I LOVE our Dr?  Yes she lets me email her anytime and she has always responded the same day and sometimes multiple times in one day!  She's amazing...thank goodness we have such a good Dr to help us through all this. 

"I have another unexplainable that I'm hoping you can explain...we went from tired Wednesday to wired from Thursday to now.  She doesn't seem to need or want to sleep ever and when we put her down or take her into her room to sleep she screams and I mean screams.  She is currently sweating from every surface on her body because we tried to put her to bed for the night.  We try letting her "cry" it out and she just gets more and more worked up it's almost like steroids, but will still never go to sleep and even if we go in after she's cried or try to rock her to sleep before she starts crying she starts SCREAMING as soon as the lights go down in her room and flails her body around until we take her out.  She won't lay down on the bed with Todd like she used to and she is typically going to bed for the night around midnight or 1 am instead of 9.  Thursday night she went to sleep probably around 11 pm or later and woke up at 1:30 and wouldn't go back to sleep until 5:30 am then woke up around 8:30 for the day.  She slept for a couple hours during the day then stayed up until 12:30 slept til 4:00 am woke up SCREAMING and we finally calmed her down and fell asleep with Todd an hour later for a couple hours.  Then she only slept for about 1 1/2 hours total naps that day and it was in Todd's arms broken up.  Last night she went to bed around 1:00 am after we gave her a dose of ativan around 10:00 pm because of how little she had slept the nights before and she woke up 20 minutes later totally inconsolable.  We took her out of her room even and she just kept screaming and throwing her back all over the place for about 15-20 min we finally got her to take a drink and got her blanket again and she fell asleep and slept with us for a few hours before waking up and doing the same thing.  She finally took a good nap from 1-4 in her crib today and thought maybe that would help but now it's bedtime and we tried putting her to bed and of course the same story screaming til she's practically soaked from sweat and kicking nonstop.  most the time she will calm down if we let her get up and play or watch a movie, but still doesn't fall asleep for hours no matter how long we let her cry or how long we stay in herroom and try to get her to sleep.  Is there any thing that would be causing this?  We called in last night and they didn't have an answer.  So maybe we just lucked out and she's really trying to get us ready for a new baby :)  Just wondered if you had an explanation or a med that might cause it but the only new thing she's had is the methotrexate and she was tired tuesday/wednesday so doesn't seem likely."

The night I sent this email turned out similar and thankfully last night was quite a bit better.  She went to bed I think around 10:30 for an hour or so woke up so we gave her a good dose of benadryl which hasn't helped in the past and she fell asleep in the other room with Todd for about 7-8 hours only waking once for a pacifier.  I woke up at 6 and couldn't believe that i had just slep for 6 hours straight!  By the time I crawled out of bed about 8 I couldn't believe a person could feel so good!  I was so refreshed from finally getting a good stretch of sleep!  I sent Todd to our bed for a few hours before he had to go in to work (since he had spent the entire night on the floor poor guy...due to our air mattress giving out for good this time and the one I ordered didn't get here til today even with the 2 day shipping b/c of the long weekend).  He woke up after about 2 hours and said something like "wow, you're like the mother of the year today, look at all you've done this morning".  Yes...amazing what you can accomplish when you actually get a bit of sleep at night. Here's hoping for another night of decent sleep!  Oh and thankfully no clinic again this Tuesday...we go Friday this week since it's every 10 days now!! 

A "normal" fabulous weekend!

I have LOTS of pictures from this weekend...so look at your own risk!  I'm sure at least grandma will enjoy...and our family in the future!  Just look at that happy face!

Her famous long tongue.

Yikes...family breakfast time. Some of us are better at mornings than others :) Clearly I'm not one of those.

Wearing Mom's sunglasses...of course she wanted them on her head not her eyes.

Our first summer fire in the backyard.

Even though she doesn't like cookies currently or most sweet things she's still toddler enough to know that the best thing for her to do with a box of open cookies is take as many as she can out of the box!

Here's the guilty culprit...no she didn't eat those cookies but she did have her first roasted marshmallow and liked it.

Dad somehow always ends up with this hat on.

I've always loved a good fire and roasted marshmallow.  One of the simple pleasure in life.

Believe it or not we still have some friends after being M.I.A for so long.  We had Ben and Jodi over for dinner and a fire.

Yes, Jodi somehow manages to suck in every child that sees her.  They love her, Gracie included!

A few pop its.  The silly girl even snapped one in her fingers and didn't even flinch.

Believe it or not we went to the parade in Hillsboro on the 4th.  Gracie really enjoyed being around all the people and we were glad we could take her after being so isolated for a couple months.  We did lather on the sunscreen twice though now that she's so sensitive to the sun (due to chemo and the septra she takes every weekend).  Another thing we worry about besides our excessive hand washing and germaphobia :) 

Queen of the day.

A snack with dad...are you surprised to see her with Dad again?

Gracie's friend Makena and her Mom, we met them at the parade.

Dad got us each flowers before we got into the car and Gracie stole mine to go along with hers...I guess she liked mine better than hers.  It was worth it for this smile!

I made Gracie a little rice krispie cake to celebrate it being her last day of consolidation (phase 2) and since it happened to be on the 4th of July we combined.  She LOVED the blue stars that's all she wanted.  And I don't think she would like cake currently desserts aren't of much interest to her so this was the best I could think of since she likes marshmallows.

Those little lips.

yep...she's a pretty normal toddler and standing on chairs that swivel while holding blue dyed stars is pretty much the best time you could have!

That or attempting to bite a candle...luckily she didn't actually bite it!

We got her a few summer presents to go with her party. 

Her famous "I don't know" arms

Dad's will be dads.  Yes he kept pouring the freezing cold water on her and she would react so funny and then keept playing.  She tenses up and says "ooooohhhhhhhhhh" with her little lips in the shape of an O. 

She looks so proud and grown up.

A little Daddy time in the pool.

Our brave girl was sitting in the freezing water, it was almost too cold for me to enjoy putting my feet in but she loved it!

After swimming we went on a walk and lit some flowers and did some more pop its before going out to the fireworks in Banks and parking in our now traditional parking spot with a perfect view and escape to miss the crowds.  Although she wasn't that impressed by the fireworks after about 5 min. 

Our 4th was PERFECT!  I almost forgot about clinic the next day (on purpose), I didn't want anything to put a damper on the day.  We had a week off clinic that ended with a 3 day weekend with Dad and lots and lots of fun.  Something we were definately due for and won't be seeing much of after this month. 

Thank you to my sweet family for the best weekend I could have asked for.